For children with speech, language, and/or feeding needs, a new school year can bring unique opportunities and challenges. There are some things you can do to help your child feel confident, prepared and supported as they return to school.
Supporting Children with Speech and Language Needs
1. Establish a Routine
Children thrive on predictability. Establish a school day routine with consistent wake-up and go to bed times and structure school mornings so your child can predict what and when things happen before leaving for school (e.g., getting dressed, eating breakfast and brushing teeth). Some children may benefit from a wall calendar that shows the day of the week, and for children using Now / Next boards or other visual schedules, make it clear what days are school days so your child knows what is happening each day.
2. Practice Self-Advocacy Phrases
Practicing language such as “I need help”, “I am hungry / thirsty,” or “Where do I go?” can help your child feel more confident advocating for themselves at school. If your child’s speech is difficult to understand, help them communicate in other ways when needed such as describing or showing what they are trying to say; and if your child uses Makaton or other sign language system, make sure you show your child’s teacher the signs and their meaning. Whenever possible, provide pictures of your child’s sign vocabulary to be kept in the classroom.
For children who use pictures to communicate, be sure to provide the classroom teacher and teaching assistant with a copy of the pictures you use at home and explain how your child uses the pictures. There will be new picture vocabulary that you child will need at school, so talk to your child’s teacher about what pictures they think may be relevant in school that you have not yet used at home.
3. Expand School-Related Vocabulary and Activities
Introduce words your child might hear at school such as, “schedule,” “assembly,” “school hall,” “recess,” etc. and model how to use this new vocabulary in real-life. Looking at books together that tell stories about children at school and have pictures of classrooms and school settings is a good way to support your child to learn school-related vocabulary.
4. Practice Social Communication and Play
Practice social situations like asking for help, taking turns, or joining a group during free play or at recess. If your child is shy or has difficulty navigating social scenarios, simple scripts like “Can I play?” or “My turn” can help your child build confidence when meeting new friends. For children who use pictures and/or sign language to communicate, introduce social pictures and signs at home and practice using them in situations your child may encounter at school.
Supporting Children with Feeding Challenges
1. School Dinner and Lunchbox ‘Dress Rehearsals’
Borrow a dinner tray and/or plate from school and let your child practice eating some meals from it at home. If your child will be bringing a packed lunch to school, let them practice eating from their actual lunchbox at home. This includes using the same containers they will bring to school. This way your child gets used to a new mealtime routine and you can see which containers, if any, are difficult for your child to open or close.
2. Stick to Familiar Foods
Avoid experimenting with new foods at the start of the school year; the sight, smell and sound of having a mealtime with peers can be overwhelming for some children. Pack safe, preferred foods your child is most likely to eat in a busy, sometimes overstimulating environment.
3. Involve Your Child in Meal Preparation
Let your child help pack their lunch and choose containers so they know what to expect when they sit down to eat.
4. Talk about Lunchtime Expectations
Explain school mealtime rules: sitting in one spot, limited time to eat, and not always having an adult to help immediately. Practice these at home, so your child knows what to expect when they sit down to eat at school.
5. Help School Understand Your Child’s Mealtime Challenges
Talk with the school’s mealtime supervisors to make sure they understand your child’s feeding challenges and how to support your child at mealtimes. It is important that mealtimes be pressure free and that your child find mealtimes at school enjoyable which may mean they don’t always make a healthy choice or finish what is on their plate.
For more information about supporting children with communication and/or feeding difficulties, please see South Lakes Speech & Language Therapy’s Information & Resources page or get in touch; and sign up to our newsletter if you would like new posts sent directly to your inbox.